My Story (as written October
2004 by Thelma Sjolander)
I was born in September 6, 1916
in a medium sized house in Tamareck Township, Wisconsin. The attending
doctor’s name was Dr. Palmer. I think I heard somewhere that
I weighed 10 pounds. I was the second child of Alex and Julia
(Mathison) Thompson. Alvina was the first child. She was
one year older than me. My dad was a large man (6’ 4”); not
very heavy but strong. He had two hired men as we farmed 450 acres.
My mother came to the home to
help with the grandparents. My grandma (mother) lived in a small
home in Ettrick. There were three children in the Mathison family:
Julia, Agnes, Theodor. She and my mother had a small candy store.
She said she ate up the profits in maplenut chocolate candies.
My mother told of Dad’s mother
and some of her friends who sat in the parlor and smoked corncob pipes.
This parlor had big hanging pictures with family photos. Sure
wish I knew where those pictures are.
I remember Christmas was celebrated
for about a week. The valley composed of four Thompson families.
They were all cousins and each took a turn to have the group there on
Christmas and on New Years.
There was a lot of cooking and
baking done for Christmas. We butchered a cow and two hogs and
had to process all that as there was no refrigeration. We smoked
hams, canned meatballs, put pork in rendered fat and froze some and
sawed off for meals. We made head cheese which was put in brine
and then made blood sausage which was baked with flour and rice and
fried. We pickled the heart and tongue and pig’s feet.
Then we baked lefse, sandbakkels,
krumkaake, flatbread, regular bread. We had a cold back room in
which we kept food.
For Christmas, we got a little
stocking with an orange, apple and nuts, and usually only one small
toy. I had a neighbor that made me a cute doll bed and someone
made a mattress for it and pillows. We celebrated on Christmas
morning as us younger ones believed in Santa Claus for quite some time.
There was a group of younger
people who dressed up and went around to family barns and played harmonicas
and horns and sang. It was called Christmas fooling, or Julebukking.
We gave them a treat like at Halloween.
We would go to church in a surrey
buggy. Mother put a black veil over our faces to keep out the
sun. We were very afraid of our Pastor as he was very stern; we
didn’t dare move during church service. He wore a white stiff collar
and long black robe. He got so moved by his preaching that he
was shouting.
In the winter we went to a school
program with a team of sleighs. This was three miles and we had
to get bundled up really good. I only went to first and second
grade at this small one-room school. There were double seats,
outdoor toilets. We took our lunch in a small syrup pail which
we sat down close to a big furnace. The teacher had to come early
each day to make a fire and heat up the schoolroom. My sister
Alvina got pneumonia and missed so much school that she was then in
the same grade as me for the rest of the school time.
Mother hired a lady twice a year
to come and stay and sew for two weeks. We each got two dresses.
I don’t remember if she sewed for mother or not. Mother had
a new Singer sewing machine but never sewed.
There was a group of ladies that
came at certain times and they made quilts. They usually had more
wool in the center of the quilt and tied it with yarn. It was
quite cold in the bedrooms so needed lots of covers. We had a
wood burning cooking stove and a furnace. In the winter men would
cut down trees in the woods and haul in chunks of wood and split up
for the stove.
We had a barn burn from lightning.
The hired man and Dad went out barefooted to save calves as the cows
and horses were outside for the night. The horses went to the
woods and didn’t return for three days when in need of water.
We had to rebuild at once to have finished before winter. They
hauled a lot of rocks from the land to use for foundation.
We raised chickens. It
was Mother’s job to take care of them. She sent to a catalog
company to order small chicks and they came by mail. We had to
use a big heater to keep them warm until they got some feathers.
We used chickens to eat often. We took eggs to the grocery store
and they mostly paid for the groceries. We didn’t have to buy
many groceries as we raised meat, got flour at the mill, butter at the
creamery, and got cream and milk from the cows. We raised enough
potatoes for all winter, made sauerkraut out of cabbage, canned pickles,
peaches, pears, apples, and made jams and jellies.
We raised sorghum cane.
This we took to the sorghum mill and they cooked it all day and we took
it home in five gallon jugs and used for baking and pancakes.
Apples were raised. We
had a big orchard and in those days we did not have to spray the apples.
We wrapped paper (from catalogs) around the apples and put them into
barrels. Some were not ripe until Christmas.
We gathered hickory nuts and
let them dry, then cracked and ate them or saved them for baking.
We often went to the woods and picked blackberries and wild apples and
raspberries. We tapped the maple trees and cooked sap for about
two days for maple syrup.
My sister and I would ride the
working horses out into the fields and bring lunch to the working men
in the morning and afternoon. They often let us eat lunch with
them.
When the grain was ripe the big
thrasher machine came, pulled by a big steam engine to separate grain
and straw. It usually took about two days. I could get a
ride in the wagon box which held grain to the granary. For this
we went up to the orchard to get apples for the men. At noon and
night there were big meals in the house for the workers. Neighbors
exchanged help so about 20 were there for the meals. There sure
was some good eating. Maybe three kinds of pie. Sometimes my
dad would complain about meals at certain homes. He hated carrots
and they often had them.
We had a neighbor that had a
spring house. They built a cemented gutter in a small building
and cold water ran through this gutter and was used to keep food cool.
It was the first time I had strawberry ice cream and Jello.
My dad had a brother who’s
son was killed by lightning. He was going to town and a storm
came and he went into an old house to get out of the storm. He
was driving a team of horses but they did not get struck.
We churned our own butter.
We had a big barreled drum and had to turn a crank a long time to get
butter. The buttermilk was used for drinking and baking.
We also made cheese from milk.
It was set out and as it curdled the whey was separated from the cheese
curds and then aged.
We used buttermilk for pancakes.
Mother would bake up a big high pile and keep in the warming oven, and
Dad and the hired help ate many. They had already done a lot of
work by breakfast time. The day usually started at 5 am.
After the cows were milked, the
milk was taken to a separating room and run through a separator to separate
the milk from the cream. The cream was kept cold in a big can
in a big water tank. A man came two times a week to take to the
creamery. Some cream was kept at home for baking and drinking
and fed to the calves and pigs.
My mother would sometimes take
one of us children with her and go to a barn dance (usually a wedding)
a little ways from our place. The Polish people had about a three
day celebration for a wedding. The women would bake in outside
ovens and hundreds of people attended. My dad did not dance so
he never wanted to go.
We would spend evenings lounging
on the floor near the heating register, eating popcorn and apples.
We also cracked hickory nuts and ate them.
Mother had a white maple floor
and had to scrub it on her hands and knees. Then we would lie
on the floor and roll around -- we thought that was lots of fun.
Our first touring car was bought
when I was about six years old -- a big Oldsmobile touring car that
had side curtains. It had a steering wheel so big it took almost
two people to turn it. The first time we went over a big steep
hill to church my mother walked to the top of the hill and waited for
my dad to come with the car. It was as steep as a mountain, and
still is. When Janice and Elaine went over there two years ago
to see the old place, they called it “the death trail.”
We had coffee socials on Sunday
at different homes. I remember one time at our house we had two
deaf people and they moved over close to the piano, so I guess they
could hear at least some music.
The hired men invited the teachers
over and we played piano rolls for music. My mother played accordion
and harmonica for us children and danced us around. She also did
this while she was at Bethany Home, well into her 90’s.
There used to be Ski Meets on
one of our hills. There were some people from Norway. The
men stood watching with black martin fur coats. I saw some pictures
of this but don’t know what happened to them.
When they had thrashed the grain
and the straw was stacked for awhile, they used the straw to fill mattresses
for the kids. They were high in the middle for awhile until they
got flattened from sleeping on them.
One time when the men had just
gotten through thrashing and a ladder was up against a big straw stack,
my sister Eunice climbed up there and it was lucky someone saw her or
she would have fallen into that loose straw and suffocated. One
of the hired men brought her down.
We moved to Galesville when I
was seven. We sold the farm to some Polish people and bought a
hundred acres about a mile from the school and the church.
I remember some big snow storms
when dad had to take us to school in the sleigh with horses. One
time we got to school but had to go back home as they could not get
the school building heated up. There was no way to tell people
that there was no school.
We did a lot of skiing.
Dad opened some fields and we had some big valleys close to us.
He made us a bobsled but it was pretty heavy to pull up. We had a tobaggan
which was much lighter. We walked about a mile to go skating on
Lake Maruwka in Galesville. In summer we would swim there.
We had very good soil here so
we did lots of gardening. We had a big bed of strawberries, raspberries,
and raised grapes. We also grew a lot of cabbage, onions, tomatoes,
corn, and cucumbers. We had to cultivate them and keep the weeds
out, and then peddle them when they were ripe. Mother used to
dress chickens and bring them to the farmer’s market in La Crosse.
She also loved flowers and had beautiful gladiolas and peonies. They
were super big because the ground was so rich.
We were in the 4-H Club for many
years. We went to the State Fair with Guernsey calves. We
had chickens and did sewing for various projects. We had meetings
at different homes and had a leader who helped us.
I think we always had a telephone.
In those days there were about eight parties on a line, so people ran
when the telephone rang to listen for some news. When we came
to Galesville we soon got a radio so we could get news there, as the
only newspaper we had was The Decorah Poster, a Norwegian paper.
All we enjoyed about it was the comics. Then later on, we got
the Galesville paper every week.
We always had a celebration for
the fourth of July. We had a picnic and a big dance in the park.
A huge crowd always attended.
The county fair was a big four
day celebration. That is where we showed our 4-H calves and cooking
and sewing abilities. We would stay all day (Dad brought us up
there) to take care of the calves. We would buy watermelon and
muskmelons and go over to a nearby hill to eat them. We got rides
on the merry-go-around for five or ten cents.
We sold some of our land for
a golf course. We would pick up golf balls and sell them for ten
cents, and sometimes we caddied for players. Sometimes they let
us play along.
We lived a mile out of town and
often someone would let dogs out and my mother would feed them, so we
always had a few dogs around, but never inside the house.
I was confirmed at the Lutheran
Church in Galesville. Alvina and myself were the only girls but
there were about ten boys. We also had two weeks of summer school.
The minister’s son was a teacher and he was so crosseyed you didn’t
know if he was looking at you or not. The kids used to go in the
back of the church and pull rhubarb stalks and eat them in class.
We always had to come home from
school each day to help weed and cultivate the garden. We also
helped to milk cows as we had no hired help then.
There were not any vacations
in those days. The farthest trips were to Blair, Wisconsin where
my dad’s brother lived. We had the old touring car and put the
side curtains on. It took about two hours from Arcadia and we
got there about 10 o’clock and had to leave for home about 3 o’clock.
His wife Alida was a very good cook and made a great huckleberry pie
(like blueberry).
I began to do some sewing.
There was an old peddler who came around with material. The folks
bought quite a few pieces. The material was pretty but it did
not wash well. I had to make a dress for my sisters and mother
for the 4th of July. When Janice was small I made over
many dresses for her. Some I couldn’t get over her head so I
guess I profited by learning better next time. I took a wig off
of a doll and put it on Janice, along with her bonnet; she looked real
good in those curls because she was bald until she was about two years
old.
One summer, when I was about
14, I went to babysit the boy of a cousin of mine, and she made me a
new dress for the 4th of July. I guess I did this for
two summers but the second summer she didn’t get it finished and I
felt badly. I was at a funeral of a cousin this past summer at
North Bend and I ran into this boy that I babysat for. I told
him he was good baby to babysit for. He is now a tall, good-looking
man and lives in the Twin Cities.
I remember the first movie I
went to. It was a Jackie Coogan matinee. I was surprised
when I got out of the theater and it was dark, so my sister and I ran
all the way home.
I had my last year of high school
and two years of Academy at Gale College. I was valedictorian and had
to give a talk. There was a bad storm that night and the lights
went out, so I hurried and gave my speech in the dark. I can still
remember most of that speech. Gale College was just across the
cornfield from our home. We would pick violets and shooting stars
on the hillside there.
We often had Luther League meetings
there at the college. Most of the students stayed at the boys
and girls dormitories.
I went to La Crosse and decided
to work at a sewing factory that was making dresses for Sears. I ran
a needle through my fingertip as there were no guards by the needle.
I didn’t want to act dumb so I kept on sewing. Once, I had a bundle
of 35 dresses and they gave me the wrong size sleeves so I pulled them
into arm holes until the floor lady saw them and had to rip them all
out. I would have run out of there but there was no back door.
I didn’t stay long at that factory.
I saw an ad in the La Crosse
paper for a girl at a beauty shop in Galesville and went to see about
working there. I worked as an apprentice. I studied several
textbooks and worked in the shop for nine months. Then I took
State Board Exam in Milwaukee after a short course at a shop there.
I had to hurry back to Galesville to take over for the owner who was
going to have a baby. I made it and worked on the third floor
of the mercantile store for two years until we decided to move to Tomah,
as a beautician was needed in the Rexall Store. It was during
wartime so had a hard time finding an apartment or room as most were
being saved for soldiers. Kay was a baby, only 3 months old, and
we got an apartment upstairs close to the shop. I was in this
shop about four years, then decided to buy a shop across from the post
office. It had many steps up but it was roomy and light.
Vernie worked for me, plus a
few other girls. When Vernie wanted to buy a beauty shop, I sold it
to her and I worked for her. We moved the shop to downstairs,
and a barber got the other half to this place. I stayed there
until Vernie decided to sell the shop and quit; but then Vernie got
a chair in Marion’s shop and works there three days a week.
Then I finally quit and it was about time!!! I worked for 62 years!
My father died at the age of
69. He had baled hay all day, ate a big supper, sat in his rocking
chair and had a heart attack. He was never sick a day in his life
and still had all his teeth. He did a lot of hard work in his
day.
His death was hard on my mother
as she had always left the financial problems for him. After a
few years she sold the farm and moved closer to town. She moved
two or three times in Galesville and then went to La Crosse to live.
One summer she had a slight stroke in her hand and decided to go into
Bethany Home. She was there for eight years but enjoyed it as
she liked to play the harmonica and accordion and read to people.
She lived to be 94½ and died after having flu which developed into
pneumonia.
My father’s parents died when
I was a baby so I never knew them. Their names were Gro and Tove.
My mother’s mother’s name
was Annie Mathison and her father’s name was Gilbert. They lived
in a small home in Ettrick. My mother and grandmother had a small
candy shop. Mother said she ate most of the maple nut candies
so the profit was small. Gilbert and Annie were separated as he
drank too much. He ended up doing grubbing on land so it could
be cultivated. He lived with us a few years. We liked the
chocolate drops he brought us.
I met Bill at a dance hall near
Holmen. It was a place to hang out on Saturday nights. We
went together for about two years. My sister Eunice and her friend
and Bill and I went to Waukon, Iowa, to get married. I didn’t
care for a big wedding and it was depression times and money was scarce.
I lived with his mother and younger brother at their home for about
a year, and then had a small apartment for $15 a month. Then went
to Tomah to the beauty shop.
I remember one time we were going
up to see my mother on a weekend in the summer. It was very hot
and by the time we got to Sparta we had had three flat tires.
The hot pavement just melted those old tires. I guess we turned
around and went back home.
When we first came to Tomah we
needed a washing machine and Bill went to Central Hardware to work out
the price of one (that could be done in the depression years).
Then, when we got that paid for, we needed a space heater so Bill continued
to work at Central Hardware and study as a journeyman. He then
went on to get his master plumber’s license. Later he joined
the union and worked out of town a lot.
Bill and I moved to a house in
back of the post office in Tomah and nearly froze that winter.
Kay was small and I could not let her crawl on the floor because it
was too cold. When I came home from work one day, the water in
the bathroom was frozen. I had to heat water in a boiler to wash clothes
on an oil stove. We had a big black range but no one was home
to find it and I had no hot water.
One morning I got up early and
put boiler on oil stove to heat water. I fell back to sleep and
when I woke up the room was completely filled with black soot as the
stove had carboned. Kay looked like a negro baby. We were
lucky I woke up when I did. Bill and I were going to repaper the
kitchen which was a big 13x14 room, and we had problems getting the
long strips of paper up as neither of us had ever papered before.
We didn’t want the owners to do it as they had just papered it before
we moved there.
Kay went to a 4-year kindergarten
which was just across the street from our home. The original school
had burned and it was being housed in the Congregational Church.
She told me I didn’t have to take her as she knew the way. She
would stand beside and talk to other children and adults. I said
she should not ask adults their age but she said they asked her.
One time she was missing and I went up to the end of the alley and saw
her going across the main street into the Cash Store. They said
she helped herself to a cookie and went out towards Sherman House.
Kay and Garry were very good
children to raise. There were not so many bad distractions in
those days. They just had bicycles to get around with. Kay
did a lot in music in school. She played first chair saxophone
and was in the top ten. She became salutarian of her graduating class.
Garry got a try on the trombone but it wasn’t his thing so he got
involved
in athletics. He also was
in the top ten. He took a lot of extra math in high school which
helped him get his scholarship to Engineering School.
When Kay was two, I had stillborn
twins. That was very sad for me.
We didn’t go on many vacations
as we had no extra money to spend.
We bought a two story house on
Glendale about ten blocks from the beauty shop and had a big job cleaning
it up as a bachelor had lived there a long time. He had alcohol
bottles hidden all over the house -- bushels of them. I painted
the outside two coats of paint while Garry slept in his buggy. He was
a good baby and got a nice tan. This house had a big garden and
two rows of grapes but the kids pulled them when still green and threw
them away.
I worked some long hours at the
beauty shop -- six days and two nights of working. We had some
good babysitters and some bad ones.
We built our house on Lake Street
about 50 years ago. Bill did the plumbing and heating. I
mostly painted and held pipes. The man we borrowed money from
for the house was a carpenter and he said he would build us a house
for four percent interest and we could pay as we could. We got
it paid off in a short time. I felt sorry for his wife as she
had no built-in cupboards or closets in her own home. We shoveled
over 25 loads of dirt for our lawn. Now a machine does it in just
hours.
Doctors discovered a murmur in
Kay’s heart when she had a checkup before Bible Camp. We went
to Varsity Heart Hospital in Madison for quite a few years. When
she graduated from high school she decided to have open-heart surgery.
She had an extra coronary artery which they severed, and she had a complete
recovery.
I think that day at the hospital
was the longest day of my life. We got to the hospital at 5am
and didn’t leave until late. We got an awful room that was usually
only rented to college kids. The mosquitoes were so bad
that we couldn’t be outside, but we had to be close to the hospital in case of an emergency call. They had Kay in an oxygen tent. We told her how
lucky she was as the temperature
was over 90 degrees. She had the surgery in August and was at
college September 3rd.
Kay got a scholarship for Carroll
College. She took the last two years at a hospital, to get training
as an X-ray technician. She met Peter Groessl at one of the hospitals
in Milwaukee. They got married and had three girls and two boys.
Peter worked very hard and long hours, and he died from cancer quite
young. All five children were left with money for college plus
two extra years. Three of the kids became doctors themselves (Kris,
Erik and Sarah).
Garry worked at some of the local
restaurants and sometimes trimmed trees. One summer he worked
for his dad, doing plumbing, when they built Manor Center. Garry
was a good student in school and got a good scholarship for Engineering
School in Milwaukee. He received free room for one year and free
room & board for the next three years. Then when he graduated
he decided to work for 3M. In those days companies would even
fly students to Europe to check on jobs. We bought him his first
car when he was a senior at Engineering School, which he used to get
back and forth to work that summer because of a strike in Milwaukee.
Garry was the first Eagle Scout
at our church. Mr. Groothuis was the leader.
Bill was a kind-hearted person
but alcohol often changed this and then he was sorry about his behavior.
I prayed he would quit but it wasn’t until we went to Alcoholics Anonymous
that he learned how to live without it. Our friends Edith and
Cam Wiseman did much for us. He was lucky to have 17 years of
sobriety before he died. Those were very good years.
My family and friends threw Bill
and me a surprise 40th anniversary party. This was
a complete surprise to me, and usually things aren’t planned that
I don’t find out about. They told Bill and I to go ahead and
see Rudios parade and Kay and Garry would come later. It was a
long parade, about three hours. When I got home I had been baking
beans and they told me we would go down to Winnibago Park to eat.
I said we could eat at home because I already had beans made and some
other foods. They said bring the beans along so I said okay.
When Bill and I got down to the park, I saw my candleholders on tables
and flowers, and everyone said “surprise!”. Our intern from
church had his wife and guitar to play, and many friends and relatives
had come.
Bill died in 1981. He had
swallowed a piece of steak and it lodged in his throat. He kept
coughing and went to the doctor who gave him pills, but it did not dissolve.
He went back to the doctor and got an X-ray and the obstruction showed
up but he couldn’t get back into the clinic. It took from Wednesday
to Saturday to get him to La Crosse and his esophagus broke on the way.
They did surgery in La Crosse and he was in intensive care for six weeks.
There were many complications. I stayed at Janice and Doc’s
during that time, and they took me to the hospital every morning.
His death was hard to face, but faith and prayer brought me through.
I went to many arts and crafts
classes through the years. They were often offered for only $7.00
a class. I learned quilting (log cabin), rose mauling, paper cutting,
embroidering, oil painting, and flower arranging. Those classes
are not offered anymore because the state hasn’t money for them.
I have made 11 quilts -- nine
for the grandkids and two for myself. I have been into braiding
wool rugs for some time, and have probably made 30. I’m lucky
to have access to old wool at the ABC Store.
I have covered many of my couches
and platform chairs, made drapes and curtains, and painted and wallpapered.
Bill and I remodeled our basement
during the war and rented the rooms out to soldier’s families.
It paid for the work we did. We made some mistakes but we got
smarter, and met some really nice families.
I love to work outside.
I’ve always had a nice lawn and many flowers. I have landscaped
my front and back yards with evergreens and flowering plants.
I have 20 geranium plants in big pots, and I bring them into the basement
for the winter. I start them over in the spring.
I keep quite busy with my volunteering
activities. I work at Tomah‘s ‘food shelf’, the ABC Store
(like Good Will), and the hospital gift shop. I quilt at church
for the missions, and visit shut-ins at the Care Center.
I still do a lot of cooking and
baking. I have Vernie over for meals almost every week.
She still fixes my hair. I try to be good to her as she is still
one of my closest friends.
I try to get up to La Crosse
and help Janice some. They had a wedding on October 2, 2004 at
Barre Mills for Kathy. She was married before and has a boy who’s
a high school senior. This was her husband Carl’s first marriage,
and he likes riding horses like Kathy.
Vernie threw an 80th
birthday party for me. This was held at my church (Gloria Dei
Lutheran Church) and is one of my favorite memories. Kay and Garry
and most of their families attended, as well as many friends from the
beauty shop and my church.
Travel
I have had many very interesting
trips in my life.
The first big trip was one to
Scandinavian countries. This was conducted by our minister, David
Hoyme, and his wife, for two weeks. It is usually quite cold there
but this year was very hot and no air conditioning. Some of the
time we stayed in college dorms used by students, with little rollaway
beds and no inner spring mattresses. We had lots of good food.
One day we had THREE smorgasbords. The waterfalls were beautiful
and we got good spring water to drink. A good thing we did as
coffee was too strong to drink and cost $2.50 for a demi-cup.
It was a beautiful country.
There was a trip to the Ozarks.
A lot of good country music and gift shops.
There was a great mountain trip
to Yellowstone to see Old Faithful geysers and many gift shops.
The views were beautiful on the mountains and the food was excellent.
Then there was a trip to Canada
to the Expo. Victoria was a beautiful city. We went back
through the ice fields and Spokane, Washington, and ate in the top of
the space needle.
There was an Eastern Color Tour.
It was for ten days. The foliage through Pennsylvania was beautiful.
We saw lots of Amish shops. We went to New York City to a theater
and to Roosevelt Center. Then went to Boston in an underground
street and to the Old North Church. It was fixed to look like
the old days. We went to a lighthouse. Then on to Vermont.
The mountains were beautiful and the food was very good. Came
back through Niagara Falls which is all lit up at night.
There was a trip to Mackinac
Island, located on Lake Superior near Ashland, Wisconsin. We went
over on a boat to ride in horse carriages on the island. It is
noted for all the beautiful lilacs and the huge long dining room.
Lots of candy factories.
The trip to Hawaii was like going
to a new world as the whispering breezes and fragrant smell was inviting.
The people walk around all night long. Had a big barbecued pig
buried in the morning and a big feast at night. Many good dancers
and tours.
A trip to Washington DC on a
bus with the Homemakers group was interesting. We ate at the 4H
Headquarters so had good food, because otherwise it was very expensive.
Went to the Tomb of Unknown Soldier and Gettysburg Battlefield.
The Lincoln Memorial building was great. We sure had to walk lots
of stair steps for every building.
A trip to the Grand Old Opry
in Nashville, Tennessee. We had four days sitting listening to
music. There were some good gospel singers, young boys and dressed
in colored tuxedos. Very good. They brought boxed lunches
in from Texas and fed 2000 people in about an hour and was good too.
I have been on several trips
to Branson, Missouri, maybe six times already. They were bus tours.
We stay at nice hotels and are treated to all the programs. The
food is fabulous and many good programs like Andy Williams, Lawrence
Whelk, The Osmonds, Danny O’Donald (super!), and violinist Shoji Tabuchi.
When Bill was still living, we
would go to San Antonio, Texas, to stay with his sister Marie for a
week at a time. We also went to Fort Meyers, Florida, to see Bill’s
sister Alice. We went shelling and to the ocean for sunning.
The sisters are all deceased now, as are their husbands.
My daughter Kay lives in Sarasota
for the winter months and I went there for two weeks a few years ago.
They play a lot of golf and go out to eat often. Went to Ringling
Brothers Art Gallery. The big framed pictures are beautiful and
all the painted wagons (over 150!) are great to see. The gardens
are beautiful and they volunteered there to take care of the flowers.
Kay and Jerry live in Green Bay, Wisconsin, in the summer months so
she can maintain a big flower garden and Jerry can grow a few vegetables.
I go to quite a few dinner theaters
in Chanhassen in Minnesota, as well as Eau Claire and Fort Atkinson
in Wisconsin. There are usually bus trips to take us.
I go to Texas to see my son Garry
and Sandra almost every Thanksgiving. I always have a good time
there.
In July 2000, I traveled to Denver,
Colorado, for Sarah and Jeff’s wedding. Then, in August 2003,
I flew to San Diego, California, for Erik and Jeanine’s wedding.
The first time I took a plane
ride (about 1930) was in Galesville when I was about 14 years old.
I thought the plane was not going very fast and was amazed at the squaring
off of the land.
Then one time, returning from
Texas, I got left at the airport. They changed gates and I was
the last one sitting there. I got the next flight out but had
to call La Crosse to have them come for me much later.
I was returning from Kay’s
once and I was in Chicago and the airline needed to de-ice the plane.
They had to do this a few times and then I got to La Crosse and used
my last quarter and finally got Janice awake and she had to come and
get me. It was 10 degrees below zero! In Chicago, I had
to get a wheelchair at the airport to get to the loading place.
Once, on a trip to Sarasota,
there were many blizzards so flights were cancelled. I had to
stand up for hours in a crowded airport.
One time I got to the airport
in Austin and it had been evacuated because of a security breach and
then people came back in and we were trying to find the luggage outlet
and they said form a line. There were SIX lines, and then Garry
cut through and got me to the exit and on to a plane so I didn’t miss
my flight.
One time out of Las Vegas we
just got up in the air and encountered a very bad electric storm.
I thought this was the end for me; I was really afraid. Finally
got out of the storm and flew on home.
Bill and I and Garry went on
a train trip to Pasadena to the Rose Bowl. I thought it would
be fun to have nothing to do for that long a time, but I got train sick
and the food was terrible. The coffee was too strong and I couldn’t
drink it. We had a good time when we got there. Kay and
Peter had a small apartment in South Pasadena. We had to get up early
the day of the parade to reach our bleachers as they closed off the
streets. Then we went to
the horse races and many other sightseeing things.
At Christmas time there is a bus trip to La Crosse and Sparta to see the hundreds of lights. Each person has to bring a bag for the food shelf. In La Crosse, they have lights for miles along the river and in the park. Many of the merchants and local organizations sponsor the lights. Then we stop at Bangor and have a lunch.